my h2b and I have been discussing ideas for our hen/stag do's but I think I've really cheesed him off this morning!!!I have never been on a girls hol so really wanted to do a weekend in Spain for mine but after not being able to go on a friends hen do to Spain due to cost I felt I should scrap the idea for myself too!
Now he's under pressure from his BM to think of something to do (even tho it's his job) and my h2b has looked at doing a rally day at a cost of......£200 for a day
I said to him that it was a bit expensive to ask a load of lads to be paying out such alot of money and I know for definate neither of our dads can afford that sort of money!!!!
I've been thinking of cheaper things to do as I think I'll have a brilliant time even if I don't spend a fortune but he seems really annoyed now and has gone to work with the hump
I don't want to seem like a party pooper but I feel like I gave up my girlie hol to save money and he wants to blow it all on one day!! Just think we could do with putting it in the wedding account! Am I being a complete *????
) Also is he sure all his mates have full licences? Cause usually in a group there's one person who doesn't drive! You need to sit down with him and explain that your wedding's expensive anyway and you've given up your expensive plan. 
!!!) and then have separate nights out doing the usual drinking/clubbing thing!!